Random Thoughts 12

Okay, story time...

I once knew this guy in high school (I'll call him B), and we knew each other since elementary school. He's an incredibly intelligent and responsible person who I thought would be very successful when he got older, and as of now, I guess that's partly true. Even though he was a bit of a dick sometimes, he was okay to be around, and some of the more spineless kids looked up to him and followed him wherever he went. Anyways, back in high school, he was the Student Council president, and he didn't have any enemies, but he was susceptible to doing something stupid in order to please some of his friends.

I remember back in Grade 12, he was in class working on something with his friends (I wasn't in this class). Now, there was another student in the class (I'll call him M) who was a bit nerdy and goofy looking, and other people made fun of him regularly. One of the guys in the group (who I'll call S) dared B to go up behind M and grab him on his ass. I can't remember what B wanted in return, but B agreed to do it. S was armed with a video camera and B went in position behind M, who was bending over to look at something. In one fell swoop, B grabbed M on the ass, but B didn't do it once, he did it twice, in the same class, on the same day.

The videos of the Student Council President grabbing another student on the ass made it on Youtube for a few weeks, and pretty much everyone on the school saw the videos. Then the school administration caught wind of the videos and B got in trouble. The videos were taken down. I think B got to keep his Student Council President title, but I can't remember the actual punishment he actually got. I'm sure this incident is something he will definitely regret.

Okay, another high school story...

I knew this guy who was in my Grade 12 Math class (who I'll call JJ). JJ was Asian, and I could tell by looking at his behavior that he was someone that cared deeply about the marks and grades he got in school (probably instilled in him by his parents). Another tidbit about JJ was that he was named after a popular rock singer (I'll let you figure out who that is). One day in class, the teacher was handing back a test we previously completed that marked. JJ got his test back and he began to throw a bitch fit. Why, you ask? Because he got an 80 on the test.

Now if this was me getting that 80, I'd be pretty happy. I'd find out about what I did wrong so that I won't make the same mistakes in future tests, and then be on my way. JJ, on the other hand, was almost in tears and complaining to the teacher about the mark he was given. In one way, I was laughing my ass off that this guy would get up in arms over an 80 on a test. In another way, I felt a bit sad for him, as he was normally a student who would normally get 90+ on tests. I don't think before this, he's experienced getting a grade less than 90. I would have loved to be in the room if he ever failed a test, that's for sure.

Alright, I'm gonna switch gears from the high school stories and talk about something else.

When it comes to the people in my life, I always believed that it was important to try to keep the people who have made a positive impact in my life, and cut ties with the people who have made a negative impact in my life. That has always been a rule I always lived by and I continue to live by to this day. I once knew someone who was at one time a great friend. Nowadays whenever I reach out to that person, that person doesn't even respond, and whenever I post something on social media that person doesn't like, that person responds with negativity.

I just don't feel like I should invest my time in that friendship, regardless of how close we were at one point. Frankly, I'm just tired of it, and I've moved on. I hope that person has moved on as well. I will treasure the good times, but I can't stay open to that person anymore, and I hope I never hear from that person again.

I've never fully addressed that issue, but with what I just wrote, I hope I've cleared things up once and for all. I hope this is the last I will talk about that.